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How to meet the demand for two-year-olds

Granddaughter, LAN-LAN was just two years old, height 90 cm, weight 15 kg, according to the doctor were "excessive", cognitive development is good, especially the rapid progress in oral language, talk to motivated, speaks not only vocabulary but also very artistic: "Grandma, you tell a story? ”...
Granddaughter, LAN-LAN was just two years old, height 90 cm, weight 15 kg, according to the doctor were "excessive", cognitive development is good, especially the rapid progress in oral language, talk to motivated, speaks not only vocabulary but also very artistic: "Grandma, you tell a story? "" Open the lights please? "The sound soft, really love people. However, there is a problem, MOM and dad reflect, said LAN LAN is very stubborn, idea, a frustrated, cry or scream, so let MOM and dad feel headache with a college degree, difficult to deal with. Author summed up the following teaching methods in practice.
First, unreasonable demands on children, shift method is used.
Around two years old child, attention is easier to transfer, according to this characteristic, when they make unreasonable demands, note method can be used.
On one occasion, LAN LAN and we came back from the street, up to the third floor, had just left first staircase, LAN LAN struggling in her mother's arms, shouting "down, down", thought LAN LAN wants to go, but my mother explained: LAN LAN request back to the same place. How is this line? This is unreasonable request! But to MOM, she's stubborn, be sure to listen to her, what should I do? Children compromises? Suddenly, I was very quick-witted, pretended to be eager, and hugged the LAN LAN said: "what, MOM had to pee? You can go faster, faster! "My mother said side opens, indicating that she quickly up the stairs when LAN LAN was attracted by my words and actions, attention to moms, she not only broke down the stairs, but learn to say, MOM pee, go! In this way, LAN LAN's unreasonable demands naturally shifts, light gas to obey the elders.
Second, inappropriate to the child's request, cleverly barrier method is used.
Child of about two years old, and sometimes made inappropriate, obstacles, so he found it difficult to meet the requirement and no longer insists on.
One day, I accompanied the LAN LAN napping, as usual, she pulled a small towel to keep me company, I grunt, "Lullaby", chant nursery rhymes. It looks like LAN LAN it is hard to sleep. Sure enough, soon, she whispered: "TV", I just want to say "no", see LAN LAN twist "hum hum", a pair of non-appearance. I said: "well, look at it. "I put remote control took in hand Shang, pretending to press key," da, and da, and da ", and with surprised of voice said:" how, blackout has ", side said side pretends to angry of like, added said:" baby to see TV, blackout has, see not has "and on LAN LAN said:" sleep's, sleep awakening to, again see! See LAN LAN a face down and helpless look, mood stability, slowly, finally go to sleep.
Third, the requirement for children, Shun heart method is used.
Two-year-olds sometimes will "work" requirement, if that could be done, you should go to help reach its demands.
Go to bed my dad pulled wipe face towel to give LAN LAN, LAN LAN nasty whirring call: no dad, not dad, I submit to that, grandmother to me. As I wiped my face like singing: "small eyes, small nose, a small mouth, not ear" LAN-LAN is clearly satisfied. Face wash finished, dad took towel, rub a rub, LAN LAN call to Ben to bathroom, on with pool, stood on tiptoe up feet, with cry even said: "I to, I to" mean is to himself hanging towel, Dad suddenly didn't reaction came, wants to not brotherhood she, but LAN LAN urgent have side Stomp, side opened voice cry sound to, I immediately road: "let baby hanging's! "I took towel helped with LAN LAN station in urinal cover Shang, saw LAN LAN shaking with body, right hand high banner with towel hard to put towel crooked to hanging in shelf Shang, finally hanging Shang has, LAN LAN open heart laugh has, taste to success of joy, on such, on two age children try a try, and dry worked of normal requirements, used Shun its mood, and seeking natural development of method received is good of education effect.
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